I’m not sure exactly where it happened, although there is compelling evidence for a couple of historical sites.
Sometimes a song starts as a chord that a guitar player can’t shake, or a phrase that a songwriter finds profound.
You have a place at the table.
When I was a kid, I experienced something on a regular basis that I didn't have a name for. Now I know what it is, because I still struggle with it, and I've sought to surround myself with people who will help me to deal with it.